Like A Child

Why did Jesus say to be like the little children? Because their great desire to love and inquisitive nature is still intact.” – Michael Minot

This quote really got me thinking. One part in particular struck a chord: “Because their great desire to love…is still intact.” That’s so true, isn’t it? A child craves love. In fact, one could argue that a child absolutely needs love in order to develop rightly. A child doesn’t really stop to think about it, they just love. When told about Jesus, children deploy an almost impenetrable sense of faith. Most children who are born into Christian homes grow up singing the song, “Jesus Loves Me” and most likely believe every word of it.

Then, those children grow up. They become teenagers and start to question the world around them. Influences and voices from all directions pull them into a constant state of insecurity and confusion. Which voice do they listen to? Which one is true? Teenagers go through a lot of “growing pains.” They will no doubt, to some degree, experience hurt, failure, and fear. They’ll experience rejection. No longer do they have their parent’s loving arms or childhood lullabies to make them feel safe. Not because they don’t want them. But, when we reach a certain age, the world tells us that we have to take care of ourselves. We need to grow up. We need to be responsible for our own actions. Anything less is considered weak, dependent, or immature. So, teenagers scratch and claw and bite their way into society, trying to cling onto an identity that they have patched together using pieces from their tumultuous surroundings.

After these teenagers survive puberty and high school graduation, they are now considered adults. And these adults are ready to face the world head on. And they better be hardened and immune. The “survival of the fittest” is no longer confined to the grade school hallways. Now, things get serious. University, job interviews and promotions, relationships and break-ups. There is no room for error here. And when the subject of love does come up, you’ll get varied reactions. Some will scoff at the very notion, because who knows what love is “for sure.” Some will equate love to casual sex and flings; and some will simply downcast their eyes and retreat into sadness, because that’s something they haven’t felt since they were a child.

The previous paragraphs may all sound very dramatic and exaggerated, but please stop and think for a moment. Have you fully and completely surrendered to love, as you once did when you were a child? Or does the term “love” bring ideas of simply showing kindness to others, and something a little more to your family and close friends. Or perhaps, it brings thoughts of pain and resentment. As adults, we may have a desire to love, but that desire is tainted by past experiences, is it not? Even when it comes to God, some may stop to question: “Does God really love me?” I think the problem does not lie within a lack of God’s love, but within an inability to feel loved. And when we don’t feel loved, it’s hard to give love.

Consider Jesus’ interactions with children and His statements regarding them:

They were bringing children to Him so that He might touch them; but the disciples rebuked them. But when Jesus saw this, He was indignant and said to them “Permit the children to come to Me; do not hinder them; for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. Truly I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it at all.” And He took them in His arms and began blessing them, laying His hands on them. (Mark 10:13-16)

We don’t know the reason why the disciples disapproved of Jesus tending to the children (whom were being brought to Him by parents seeking a blessing). Perhaps they didn’t want Him to be bothered by the little ones; maybe they didn’t think they were worthy of Jesus’ attention. Whatever the case, Jesus strongly disagreed with the disciples and openly accepted the children who were set before Him. What a great image of Jesus taking the children into His arms, laying His hands on them and blessing them. This is a true picture of how Christ shows His love to those who humble themselves and trust in Him.

At that time the disciples came to Jesus and said, “Who then is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” And He called a child to Himself and set him before them, and said, “Truly I say to you, unless you are converted and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever then humbles himself as this child, he is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven…” (Matthew 18:1-4)

Do you become like a child and trust and love God, like you would love a faithful and protective father? Or do you fight the desire to be strong and in control? That’s what society tells us. We have to be in control. We have to do it ourselves or else we’re less than and the next guy or girl will come along and take our place. My friends, this is a lie. Why else would the world tell us to take life by the reigns and God tell us to lose our life for His sake? Society esteems the proud, ambitious and successful; God esteems the humble servant who stores his treasures in heaven instead of on earth.

But God has chosen the foolish things of the world to shame the wise, and God has chosen the weak things of the world to shame the things which are strong, and the base things of the world and the despised God has chosen, the things that are not, so that He may nullify the things that are, so that no man may boast before God. (1 Cor. 1:27-29)

It’s hard. Believing and living this way goes against everything we are taught from an early age. But, at some point in our lives, we have to determine if we love God or simply acknowledge His existence and then go on with our day. The more we view and understand that God is our loving, faithful, and protective Father, the more we can start to be loved by Him. And when we feel loved, we can give love.

“Whisper softly to me
Share with me your heart
And just ignore the world and what it does
I know that you’ve been hurting, you’ve been torn apart
And I pull you close and hold you in my arms

If you give love
I’ll return the love and you will see
So much more than you gave away
If you give love
Give it to me

Listen very closely as I sing this song
And please believe that I mean every word
When I say I love you
I mean it with all my heart
Let it be the best thing that you’ve ever heard.”

“Give Love” by Third Day

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One Response to Like A Child

  1. The children that were brought to Jesus were very young – young enough to be held in his arms. Probably so young they couldn’t distinguish their right hand from their left (as God told Jonah near the end of that book). Children in that day were definitely second-class citizens; they hadn’t contributed to society in any way yet; they couldn’t work to support themselves; they were uneducated. They were unable to contribute any good work.
    In that sense, they were much like the sinners, prostitutes, and tax collectors that were hated by the religious and self-righteous Pharisees. They “added” nothing. And maybe that is the point: they couldn’t contribute any good works that would make them acceptable. Yet God in his mercy saw the innocence of these children, who were still untouched and unstained by the world.
    A child’s ability to love people and the world is only affected by time and reality. He eventually sees that mankind is selfish, unlovely, and cruel. He begins to understand that man will go his own way regardless of who he steps on to get there. And it makes a child not only understand who sinners are, but that he himself is a sinner – unable to devise an escape from this world or the people in it.
    In Luke 7, Jesus told a parable about a certain moneylender who had two debtors. One owed a lot, one a little. Neither one could pay, and he cancelled the debt of both. Then He asked, “Which of them will love him more? Simon answered, “The one I suppose for whom he cancelled the larger debt.” Jesus told him that he had judged rightly. He later said, “He who is forgiven little, loves little.” Self righteous people love very little because they feel they don’t need forgiveness. When one comes to Jesus as a child, he is forgiven everything – as though he were innocent again. And he therefore can love God and others fully because of that forgiveness.

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